Quote (KiABILLL @ Jul 4 2016 02:50am)
I wont Resent them or her and ive got 2 years to prepare b4 we try for kids also the Real answer to the kids part I just never really thought I was Father Material or that I was good enough,
and every man is never Ready they always need more time etc etc but ive decided weather I like it or not ill be ready in 2 years to try. Also my dad left me when I was like 7 never saw him again etc,
Last I heard he had a Family somewhere over sea's etc etc but that's all in the past for me now. I will be the best father I can be for my kid's I plan to have 2 and want a girl n boy but hey life never goes as planned right^^
Probably your background with your father played a rol, but as you said, that's part of the past. It might look stupid to you, but I'd advice you to keep the bold part in a note at pc/phone and read it in 2 years.
Probably you'll be a terrible father, like we all should the first time. But you look motivated to learn as much as you can and to provide as much love and care as you can.
It makes me happy to see that some ppl around here has a beautiful story to tell.
This post was edited by LordSinfriends on Jul 3 2016 07:54pm