The anniversary of my dad's death is just a few days after my son's first birthday and I keep breaking down in tears because they'll never get to know each other and would have loved each other so much.

I often suggest that people should do whatever makes them happy. But this backfires when what makes you happy takes away from others happiness, I guess the truth is that there is no one answer to life, only many. To assume any one way of thinking can solve everything is insane, life is not black and white, it is so very grey. also; I don't know.

that would be yaodo bruh

hey man, sorry for your loss. i appreciate your vulnerability. I think you're blessed though, you've got your son, a head on your shoulders and an ability to create a great life for your son. I wish you the best and the grief is natural, embrace it and treasure the memories of your father, he's still with you in many ways.which is fair, no one dictates anything. But the thought that primal needs and primal emotions are caused. One understands that for the majority, an action creates feelings of pain on another, can be considered wrong. If you're hurting yourself it's a different story on this journey of living it up. Also; I don't know. Who does but keep that moral compass strong.

Mad feels in this thread on this night

So today is an interesting day. Some girl I know I don't really like asked me to hangout... And now the girl I like from work just asked me^ to hangout tonight.

I'm obviously going to blow off the other one but I feel bad doing so.