Quote (KingGuzman @ Jan 12 2015 02:20pm)
not rushing is exactly what I'm going to do. I don't wanna be just another dude at work that casually talks to her and has nothing to say. I want our convos to really mean something.
Naw it's not that easy my man.
I use to as a bartender at this other place and I liked this girl name Whitney after I told her I wanted to date her things got extremely awkward and I end up leaving the place because other co-workers weren't helping with the hole awkwardness I even pulled her aside and told her lets be grownups about this and it didn't help.
I don't want the same to happen here.
that's exactly what I don't want.
I'll just be another clown at work, sorta like you guys making threads about zubaru and don't really having anything to say.
comes off a bit weird in my opinion.
The only person that really bothered is YOU. Rejection isn't an open invitation to awkwardness.... Especially in a work setting. So what, you like the girl and other people know... You're a guy and everyone else you worked with obviously has the mentality of a 4th grader..... Not to mention you can take advantage of the work professionalism. You got rejected so what, you still have to work with that person. Usually this is enough to pave over all that awkwardness, or at least look over it.
Seriously man... YOU are the only person holding yourself back... Also don't go in with the Movie Romance mentialy. It never fucking works like that...