You are only truly dead when you're name is spoken for the last time.

exactly the way i look at it. the choices you made effected alot of people threw your life. I look at those choices and the influence some of them had over people. Its almost like your echoing through time even after your death

QFT

happy for the life they had ofc...for it was special Like all life is.....and sad for yourself self pity and soo forth wont get you very far but hard not too feel it for sure...