Quote (ViviLOL @ Nov 5 2014 07:40pm)
Aggression is not necessarily violence, aggression means having a confident, assertive personality where people don't take you for excuse my language "a pussy" and take advantage of you. That is what I meant, don't take my words out of context good sir.
With the testosterone spike at his age, it is necessary for him to grow physically and mentally, and it is normal for a teenager his age to want to experiment with the opposite sex.
Disease is only caught if protective methods are not utilized, so you should teach your son safe sex methods before he goes out, experiments himself, and actually catches a disease, not tell you about it because he would be ashamed it goes against your beliefs, and have his health deteriorate.
The young girls just want to know what lies beneath the opposite sex's legs, perhaps that is why they're stripping him, perhaps they want to engage in sexual activity.
You basically told me earlier to use self defense on them.... that is violence. And I have taught my nephew the rights and wrongs about sexual related issues and to never engage on them until and unless he is older and married.
Quote (wraps @ Nov 5 2014 07:41pm)
have you tried talking to the girls parents about their bullying?
I have thought of this and it would never work for many reasons.
Quote (majien9 @ Nov 5 2014 07:41pm)
tell him to tell them that they are annoying...
bullying is just an annoyance and you dont have to get sad and upset just because other people are being mean to u.. just ignore them until they physically touch him, then he has every right to hit back and defend himself the best he can
I've asked them to stop my only method of self defense now could be perhaps baking them cookies and cake?
Quote (ViviLOL @ Nov 5 2014 07:42pm)
No, because he would get bullied by them, then take it out on his nephew by planting false beliefs in his head saying girls have "cooties".
You're right that is why I won't go to them however me planting false beliefs in his head to protect my nephew is not wrong. He probably knows deep down they don't really have cooties because he is a smart kid and as I have said I have given him speeches on sexual related things why you should never do so plus he takes health class. And it is against our religious beliefs most importantly.