give the peace offering

Smaller and overweight? That makes no sense, they are 2 contradictory words.

The reason he gets picked on is not because of his size/weight. The reason he gets picked on is because "you watch him like a hawk" leaving him no personal space to do his own work, evolve socially and mentally as a human being.

They are not cruel and evil children, we all have the tendency to outcast or percieve something differently and act on it if it's not a part of the norm.

Perhaps have you tried teaching your son how to be normal? Perhaps lose a bit of weight, restrict his diet, have him exercise? Or does that all go against your belief system?

Yes I agree, not everybody goes a-wall, but people do have feelings and feelings of anger, regret, guilt lead to depression (which is what your nephew has). Depression is very unhealthy and can lead to homicidal / suicidal thoughts.

There is nothing wrong with your nephew, the fault lies in how you have raised him and you're not allowing his personal development and social development.

The more you restrict him and push your religious beliefs on him, the more angry and depressed he will get and sooner or later he will feel as if he has no way out of it other than suicide + homicide.

Please you need to have him speak to a professional. This is very unhealthy what you are doing to that poor child.

e: how would you KNOW what your nephew wants? are you inside his head? are you inside his mind and subconscious? what he tells you and shows you is completely different from how he feels and what he thinks, you're making it seem like you're God. You sir are the misinformed one.

e: Right now he is to young so I put the idea in his head that girls have cooties.

^this is why he has no friends and gets bullied, because you're projecting your past onto him because you feel guilty of your past, therefore transferring your guilt of your past onto another innocent soul.

see you're trying to be God. You can't do that. That is very wrong, and your actions will only send you to hell for trying to play God's role controlling his mind.

This is the work of the Devil to plant false misinformed thoughts into a young innocent soul's mind.

This post was edited by ViviLOL on Nov 5 2014 05:20pm

Smaller and overweight as in he is not to tall and is overweight due to disorders. He inherited what I have. I am sure he will grow taller but he is overweight due to pancreatic and thyroid issues.

And me watching him like a hawk is basically me being a good legal guardian for him. I am doing what a good parent would do, although I may not be his actual father. I am like a parent to him and his legal guardian.

The children are cruel and evil and because they don't know any better, I can only hope they change.

He cannot help his weight we do exercise and do calisthenics as the doctors have advice this. This does not go against out beliefs just as long as we don't solely dedicate time to it.

And I am glad you can agree no everyone goes A wall because then everyday in this world there would be more shooting tragedies and numerous ones a day in fact hundreds because hundreds if not thousands of kids are bullied every day.

I was bullied growing up and still am to this day and would never think of doing such an outrageous reprehensible things.

So in fact that pretty much should give you the answer right there and proves my nephew would never do such a thing.

Can you please get off of this and stop advising me to stop with how I am raising my nephew. I asked for advice on the situation no advice on how to raise my own nephew.

Furthermore as aforementioned get back on topic please. All you are doing now is saying my nephew is going to be a psycho when you don't even know or live with him and I do.

I was bullied far worse than he was by far and I did not go a wall. I just don't want to see my nephew bullied at all period because it is not right whether is was worse then mine or not.

Thank you for your attempts at delivering input however it is not helping the cause.




Perhaps bake cake, yes?

double this

tell your sonny boy to grow some balls

My "attempts at delivering input" are very viable as I'm a medical professional (hope that doesn't go against your beliefs, taking advice from a medical practitioner).

There are treatments for Diabetes and Hypothyroidism, if you give him some Iodine treatment his thyroid function will return to normal and his metabolism will speed up causing him to lose unnecessary weight. (If that doesn't go against your beliefs, instead pray for him am I right?)

You have no idea what your nephew is capable of, as I said you're not in his mind, and you can't control him which is what you're trying to do and that is HORRIBLE parenting.

You came here asking for help, so get ready to receive help, the problem lies not in him (it may physically), but the problem lies in the values and belief systems you're instilling within him and brainwashing him with (cooties? really?).

You're trying to play the role of God with this innocent child.

Just because you live with somebody doesn't mean you know everything that's going on inside their head.

As I said, have him see a therapist, it will benefit both him and you (you should probably see one as well).

He needs a person to talk to that will be objective (hopefully you know what word means) and not subjective (and impose views and religious beliefs on him like you do).

You are poisoning his mind.

My nephew speaks to the school psychologists always I have made him do so and they have deemed him fine.

So he does get professional help.

Once again how does any of this help the current situation in which my nephew is involved in, you are a doctor supposedly and first said to do violence on these girls?

Seeing any sort of therapy which we already do does not mean the situation is going to stop. In what way can these girls stop bullying my nephew? Violence is not the answer nor is only seeking therapy. What other method is there to make them cease and desist that is my point I am trying to make.

I didn't necessarily say violence, I mentioned aggression. I'm 100% violence and laying hands on a female.
But there has to be a reason they're trying to strip him and pull his pants down?
Perhaps they're just overly hormonal pre-pubescent girls that want to experience sexuality for the first time.
You should tell your son not to be scared of these females and that cooties are not real, then maybe he will have a more enjoyable time with them if you know what I mean.
Maybe they're not bullying him and they simply want to experience this modern phenomenon known as girls wanting "THE D", as made popular by modern hip hop/rap music.
The girls just want to explore sexuality, and you should not inhibit your son's sexuality.

With all due respect you question my parenting habbits and ways for my nephew.

Yet you who is supposedly a doctor is saying to engage in aggression which is basically violence.

And furthermore also now telling me to not to inhibit my nephew from having sex at a young age where he could catch disease?

I have to question your doctoring advice my good sir. I know you have good intent but this is just outrageous.

Sex before marriage is against our beliefs especially when it involves underage children and diseases. NO thank you.

Please provide any other advice in regards to my original problem and issue please. You are going of hand giving false information on the situation.

wow the battle of the trolls jesus

Jahovahs winning by a longshot

This post was edited by Olfongodar on Nov 5 2014 05:39pm