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Jul 26 2016 01:42pm
Quote (Boost4U @ 26 Jul 2016 11:37)
Friend is a stretch of the truth.

But giving drugs to someone who was addicted to said drug at one point in time and vowed to never take it again... then literally being the supplier is grounds for more than just what you're all saying.

I guess none of you realize what xanax does to your personality, I'd close the thread if I could.


I'm sure that he never would have touched drugs again if they weren't available from the one drug dealer in your area, so you've got a really solid point.
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Quote (Boost4U @ Jul 26 2016 08:37pm)
Friend is a stretch of the truth.

But giving drugs to someone who was addicted to said drug at one point in time and vowed to never take it again... then literally being the supplier is grounds for more than just what you're all saying.

I guess none of you realize what xanax does to your personality, I'd close the thread if I could.


Why you trying to get sympathy when he wasn't even your friend
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Jul 26 2016 01:43pm
Damn sorry for your loss.
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Jul 26 2016 01:45pm
Quote (FaceDeath @ Jul 26 2016 12:42pm)
Why you trying to get sympathy when he wasn't even your friend


Where in my post am I attempting to garnish sympathy?

I'm here for advice, not shit posts like yours who have the reading comprehension of a 4th grader.

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I'm sure that he never would have touched drugs again if they weren't available from the one drug dealer in your area, so you've got a really solid point.


He did for 5 years. Stupid quote, "friends don't let friends drive drunk" - he didn't stop him from getting in a car irritated high as shit on the pills he gave him. This is my only question, I don't give a shit about anything else you have to say.

Did I do something wrong, and how would I go about fixing it? I don't give a shit about anything else.
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Jul 26 2016 01:48pm
Quote (Boost4U @ Jul 26 2016 07:59pm)
I'm interested if what I did was wrong.

blah blah etc

Was I wrong in my actions and how do I go about this at the memorial?What a shitty situation, and I'm sitting here trying to grieve the death of my best friend.

Thoughts?


yeah fuck knows where i got that idea from





































This post was edited by FaceDeath on Jul 26 2016 01:50pm
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Jul 26 2016 01:49pm
Inb4griefsuicide
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Quote (bonty @ Jul 26 2016 12:40pm)
I lost a friend too when i was 20 years old, a best friend. fuck it hurted.

anyways, i dont think assigning blame will be useful for anyone, my advice would be to tighten up together and get through this. Blaming anybody for this wont bring friend back, and it wont ease anybody's pain.

Its a normal behavior though, when my budd passed away i was looking out for whoever was responsible and forwarding all my despair, hate, incomprehension of a loss to this ''person to blame'' .

give yourself some time, man. And do so for everyone concerned about that passing away, All i can really say.

Let go of the why's and how's and what if's because, and it sounds rude; it does not matter.

Not sure if im making my point , pretty sketchy situation you are in man..

My sympathies to you and everyone that loved that dude.


Yeah, this is the route I went after I apologized to him for my words. He basically just tried to make me feel bad for him after my apology, and I just told him to quit xanax if he actually cared. Then still went off looking for sympathy, and all his "thug" friends are threatening me still. Meh
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Quote (Boost4U @ 26 Jul 2016 11:45)
He did for 5 years. Stupid quote, "friends don't let friends drive drunk" - he didn't stop him from getting in a car irritated high as shit on the pills he gave him. This is my only question, I don't give a shit about anything else you have to say.

Did I do something wrong, and how would I go about fixing it? I don't give a shit about anything else.


Yes, you did something wrong.

I doubt you can fix it as easily as you broke it, frankly. You can apologize and tell the dude that you were really upset and lashing out because you're grieving and hope that there can be some healing that starts as a result of it, or you can keep flipping out and acting like a drug addict taking drugs is someone else's fault.
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Quote (Boost4U @ Jul 26 2016 08:49pm)
Yeah, this is the route I went after I apologized to him for my words. He basically just tried to make me feel bad for him after my apology, and I just told him to quit xanax if he actually cared. Then still went off looking for sympathy, and all his "thug" friends are threatening me still. Meh


i hope they do
not yet tho
i hope the threat looms over you for a while first
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Jul 26 2016 01:51pm
Quote (FaceDeath @ Jul 26 2016 12:48pm)
yeah fuck knows where i got that idea from




































cunt


I don't care for sympathy, my post was very obviously directed towards a question. Take it as you will, 60% can't edit.

I've got enough phone calls and texts that I could care less about, I don't need yours too. I'm here asking a question since I don't want to ask anyone else since they're directly related to him.
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