It's one thing to willingly have kids with someone and then fuck off, it's another thing to be forced into being a parent. If you say upfront that you don't want to be a dad, and she keeps the kid anyway, then, she chose to be a single mom. You have no moral obligation to stay with her.

Better luck next time

you can say this... but true love and come by raising a family together as well. depends on him

never catch me with feelings

You can't "craft" true love, if he's not feeling it then there's a pretty high chance he ends up feeling trapped which will have a negative impact on the kid.

I'd rather live full time with one parent who loves me and takes care of me rather than with two parents who hate each other and stay together because of a child rather than mutual affection.

I agree with that, i really like her but def not love..we arent even in that deep in the relationship yet and shes been stressed so she says that could be the reason of her delayed period.....also i just checked and i have a pic of my exs w2s (she went out of town and i sent her a pic of it) it has so much of her personal info on it should i give it away or would that be going to far

Im glad someone caught this

We were on good terms still and im a very nice person irl

dude you are trying ot think of it all wrong...
it isn't ''crafting''

true endearing love is something gained over time... look into psychology.

Both points are irrelevant