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#11
May 23 2016 01:14am
why would you not expect her to want to live together after 4 years lol...
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#12
May 23 2016 01:25am
Wait until you engaged and planned your wedding date
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May 23 2016 01:26am
Quote (Reset @ May 23 2016 07:14am)
why would you not expect her to want to live together after 4 years lol...


because im not the person who need his girl as much as possible around me. im okay with it, to see her 2 days a week and i often prefer it to do something with my friends.
i rly dont get it, how ppl could build their lives that fast around her girlfriends. okay okay... if your ugly as shit and dont have friends, work, school, family, sport or what ever in your live and your girlfrind is the only thing you own, okay... then i can understand it, why they push their relationships that fast.

Quote (wraps @ May 23 2016 07:13am)
i think you're right about that! :)

if you both have your lives set up nicely and you can afford to both get a new place if things don't work out then that's one thing but don't become dependent on the other person! :)

if you both do good things with your lives then in the long run it will work out better for you both! ^_^


yeah my words... but why it is so hard to understand this part as a girl?

it seems that they always look through her pink glasses and want to live like a queen with her private prince in her perfect fantasy world.... they dont get the feel for the reality :wacko:
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May 23 2016 01:30am
eh just Gud luck hehe don't be Suprized if u say no that she breaks up with you.
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May 23 2016 01:33am
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eh just Gud luck hehe don't be Suprized if u say no that she breaks up with you.


yeah... yesterday we were already rly near to this point.

tomorrow ill meet her again and we have to talk about this shit again, so i wanted some other thoughts about this situation.
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#16
May 23 2016 04:15am
Quote (Multifunktionsdrucker @ May 23 2016 02:14am)
she got rly angy and said to me, that all her befriended couples get further with thier relationship but we stuck in a point for years and if i would rly love her, i would live together with her in her new flat....


You are right for highlighting that part because she is wrong for phrasing her argument that way. On the other hand...

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because im not the person who need his girl as much as possible around me. im okay with it, to see her 2 days a week and i often prefer it to do something with my friends.


You are way off base if you think that seeing her 2 days a week is a fair amount for someone you've been with for 4 years. That is FAR too little time. 2-4 hours per day (even on a busy day) would be the minimum. And any time there is an offday (weekend etc) you should be spending the whole day together.

Is there some logistical reason why she can't move closer to where you need to be?

This post was edited by kayeto on May 23 2016 04:15am
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#17
May 23 2016 04:27am
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How long have you been dating her? How serious are you?

Sooner or later, you will have to move in with your girlfriend if this relationship is supposed to last more than just a couple of years. You're aware of that, right?


...absolute rubbish . Cohabitation is a fairly modern practice .
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May 23 2016 04:56am
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...absolute rubbish . Cohabitation is a fairly modern practice .


And penicillin is a fairly modern antibiotic, but we don't heat long swords up to burn out infections anymore. Cohabitation, if it is modern, is now the societal norm.

I think after 4 years she's got a point, but asking you to move away from school and work is selfish. It's something that won't just go away though.
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May 23 2016 04:58am
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And penicillin is a fairly modern antibiotic, but we don't heat long swords up to burn out infections anymore. Cohabitation, if it is modern, is now the societal norm.

I think after 4 years she's got a point, but asking you to move away from school and work is selfish. It's something that won't just go away though.


...which does not make it morally right .
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May 23 2016 05:02am
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...which does not make it morally right .


it being morally wrong (if it is) doesn't prevent it from being inevitable.
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