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Jun 13 2016 02:56am
she's a young lady that has had a hard life and she uses sex with multiple guys as an outlet! :(

she also brags about it and most of the people that know her consider her a slut at the age of 18. (now i know that this is a perfect set-up for a troll thread but i'm not trolling)

i legit want to help my friend from being broken.

i just don't know what to say to her. i told her yesterday (when she was bragging about some guy she slept with) to make sure that the guy treated her with respect and actually cared for her rather than using her for sex! (she's only 18 though!)

i'm 36 years old so it's hard to talk to her in a way that she'll understand because in her mind it's just like all old people say the same stuff..go to school..don't do drugs..etc..

do you homies know of any kinds of ways to approach this kind of situation and help? :love:
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Jun 13 2016 03:01am
Unfortunately girls do not think logically. They are not into guys who treat them with respect or love them. Girls actually go the opposite way and go for the asses in life.

I'm going to say it directly, she is screwed and there is nothing that can be done. There is biological evidence as to how a woman's brain works and no mere words can break the programming.

If it were simple, I'd have a girlfriend by now.
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Jun 13 2016 03:04am
Giv her my number
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Jun 13 2016 03:12am
You can't help people that can't be helped.

Or in other words, you can only help people that are able to be helped.

Or in other words, if you need to ask, she's one of the aforementioned.

Age and life experience might make her a different person. Or not.
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Jun 13 2016 03:12am
Quote (CPK001 @ Jun 13 2016 04:01am)
Unfortunately girls do not think logically. They are not into guys who treat them with respect or love them. Girls actually go the opposite way and go for the asses in life.

I'm going to say it directly, she is screwed and there is nothing that can be done. There is biological evidence as to how a woman's brain works and no mere words can break the programming.

If it were simple, I'd have a girlfriend by now.


she's only an 18 year old kid so i know she doesn't think logically. she is unknowingly being taken advantage of (or maybe even knowingly) and doesn't care because she likes attention from men. :(

i see the f'd upness and want to help her get her life going in the right direction but i don't know where to start.

one of my friends really showed me her destructive path and asked me a strong question. "what would you do if she was your Daughter?"

i want to help her out somehow! :)
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Jun 13 2016 03:14am
Quote (wraps @ Jun 13 2016 02:12am)
she's only an 18 year old kid so i know she doesn't think logically. she is unknowingly being taken advantage of (or maybe even knowingly) and doesn't care because she likes attention from men. :(

i see the f'd upness and want to help her get her life going in the right direction but i don't know where to start.

one of my friends really showed me her destructive path and asked me a strong question. "what would you do if she was your Daughter?"

i want to help her out somehow! :)


can you explain how she's being taken advantage of?
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Jun 13 2016 03:18am
Time for your turn
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Jun 13 2016 03:18am
Wake up Richie mustachio
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Jun 13 2016 03:19am
maybe she just enjoys sex or gets gratification from feeling sexy & wanted



Quote (CPK001 @ 13 Jun 2016 03:01)
Unfortunately girls do not think logically. They are not into guys who treat them with respect or love them. Girls actually go the opposite way and go for the asses in life.

I'm going to say it directly, she is screwed and there is nothing that can be done. There is biological evidence as to how a woman's brain works and no mere words can break the programming.

If it were simple, I'd have a girlfriend by now.


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Jun 13 2016 03:20am
Quote (fizzpower @ Jun 13 2016 02:18am)
Wake up Richie mustachio


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