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Aug 6 2012 10:08pm
I hooked up with a girl 2 months ago at a party, kind of drunk. Still friends with her but we don't really talk.
Today she skyped me and told me she was pregnant, I took it as a joke.
Went to her house just now, and she showed me the pregnancy test.
She's on depo, and she took a morning after pill a day after the sex.
She's been having morning sickness the past 2 weeks.

Is there any way it's a false positive?
Will the doctor tell my parents if it actually is mine? She's okay with my parents not finding out, she doesn't want to go through the trouble of getting me involved in this.

How much is an abortion, and is it painful?

What happens if she gets an abortion and it was already a misscarriage/false positive?

Please help.. I'm really scared right now..
I'm only 17, I don't even have a job. I'm not ready for a kid.
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Aug 6 2012 10:10pm
personal problem imo
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Aug 6 2012 10:12pm
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personal problem imo


You're a fucking asshole.
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Aug 6 2012 10:13pm
Quote (Jacobbc2 @ Aug 6 2012 11:08pm)
I hooked up with a girl 2 months ago at a party, kind of drunk. Still friends with her but we don't really talk.
Today she skyped me and told me she was pregnant, I took it as a joke.
Went to her house just now, and she showed me the pregnancy test.
She's on depo, and she took a morning after pill a day after the sex.
She's been having morning sickness the past 2 weeks.

Is there any way it's a false positive?
Will the doctor tell my parents if it actually is mine? She's okay with my parents not finding out, she doesn't want to go through the trouble of getting me involved in this.

How much is an abortion, and is it painful?

What happens if she gets an abortion and it was already a misscarriage/false positive?

Please help.. I'm really scared right now..
I'm only 17, I don't even have a job. I'm not ready for a kid.


It's possible it is a false positive, sure. Those tests aren't always 100%
And the doctors can't say anything to anyone if you don't want them to.

/E They can't release your information without permission, period.

This post was edited by steaksauce1 on Aug 6 2012 10:13pm
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Aug 6 2012 10:13pm
it is possible to get a false response on a test. did she go to the doctor?

as far as abortion goes, it can be done for free depending on where you live.
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Aug 6 2012 10:15pm
It's more accurate if you tell her to go to the doctor and take blood samples
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Aug 6 2012 10:17pm
Time to get a job or Join the military for the med benefits for your new family
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Aug 6 2012 10:18pm
Get a job now. Abortions are for pathetic people.

I worked at a pregnancy resource center for some volunteer work. I know all about these sad abortions. You live in the United States kid. Grow up, put some pants on. Get a job while you finish High school. Don't go to college. Join the military or work your ass off for your child.
Try to fall in love with that girl. Make a loving family for that kid to grow up in.

This is ofc if she is actually pregnant.

This post was edited by ChrisKz on Aug 6 2012 10:20pm
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Get a job now. Abortions are for pathetic people.


This.

Or you know, ask for your parents' help (or her's) while you go to college, if you prefer that.

This post was edited by taekvideo on Aug 6 2012 10:21pm
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Aug 6 2012 10:23pm
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it is possible to get a false response on a test. did she go to the doctor?

as far as abortion goes, it can be done for free depending on where you live.


Do you need parent consent for an abortion?

I know pregnancy tests are anonymous, but I can't imagine abortions are.

Quote (ChrisKz @ Aug 6 2012 08:18pm)
Get a job now. Abortions are for pathetic people.

I worked at a pregnancy resource center for some volunteer work. I know all about these sad abortions. You live in the United States kid. Grow up, put some pants on. Get a job while you finish High school. Don't go to college. Join the military or work your ass off for your child.
Try to fall in love with that girl. Make a loving family for that kid to grow up in.

This is ofc if she is actually pregnant.


I know I need to grow up. I'm fucking trying. Everyone has to, and i'm trying.

You can't fucking force yourself to love a girl though.

She's a random whore, and the kid will be a mistake if it's born. I'm trying to convince her to have an abortion..

This post was edited by Jacobbc2 on Aug 6 2012 10:24pm
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