im so frustrated right now im ready to pull my hair out. i go to get breakfast, english muffin and coffee, and apparently my mother told someone they could take the leftover mash taters from the night before which was sitting next to the butter in the same type of tupperware container. so they took both, now i have to go without breakfast because my ma likes to give the food i buy away. also having the worst week of sleep in my life. my ma keeps waking me up with her crazy drinking cant even have eggs, cuz no butter to cook with, the cats have fleas which are eating me like crazy, brought over because she said someone could stay in her room while her house was being bombed, and she brought over all her laundry. its my house i pay for, my food i pay for. i dont have the heart to put my ma in her place, but things are going too far. Shes disabled so she cant live by herself and i dont know what to do anymore, i am having serious frustrations here.

Sounds as if you have your hands full..... If you want the bagel, is it a lot of trouble to go to the store- not trying to be a smart ass, just asking- if not you can get some butter and cream cheese or w/e for the bagel. You can always fry the egg with a little olive oil or w/e kind you use. You could boil them. Poach. If push comes to shove nuke those mofos. Not in the shell.... and break the yolk... Got any other options for breakfast?It may not be what you wanted, but it will help hold the hunger wolves at bay. Like last night I wanted King Crab, Oysters, Sea Scallops and Shrimp. I had meatloaf and baked beans. No, it wasn't what I wanted, but it was tasty as hell and I got so full I felt sick.

As for ma, have you considered "assisted living"? That way she can get the help she needs by professionals. It would also help in the drinking department. If you think that she needs help with that, that may be an option you would like to consider. A lot of people feel guilty for thinking that, but if it is what is best for them, then maybe it should be done. If you think finances are an issue there are places that can help with that.

I hope everything works for the best for you. Just remember sometimes love is tough. Very tough. Sometimes you have to make decisions that you don't want to, but have to for everyones benefit. Especially theirs.

Good luck bro... pm me if ya need to. I'm there.

im broke no butter no beer i only buy eggs and english muffins for breakfast. not upset about not being able to eat, its not the first time ive gone hungry by a long shot. mostly upset about the fact someone took it, i hate when people take my things. i cant afford assisted living for her, and dont have the heart to do that. i can take care of her for the most part, other than the drinking and being generous with my stuff. shes not mentally incapable when sober, just physically disabled, degenerative osteoarthritis ie crumbling spine. only came in here to vent my frustrations because i have no one else to talk to atm, and it helps when i speak about how i feel, its very theraputic for me, i dont hold any anger inside, and once i express myself and let it out it goes away really fast. I dont stay upset about anything for any length of time this way, and thanks james.

on a side note, meatloaf is my favorite, and beans as a side is just boss. i dont eat seafood, so im wicked jelly james lol

Speaking of jelly, I happen to have some you can put on your bagel.

That KY jar still got some stuff in it, eh?

Got a little left

Hey guys, im taking the day off slashing. its my Gf and I's 5th Anniversary

GL on all your Mq's!!

Enjoy your anniversary bud

update: the butter is being returned!

and thanks for the offer james, but i havnt used that kind of jelly in years