So I bought some new things for my melee guy.... Instead of just having stat armors now I have added in tanking armors...
lvl 10 chain 93 ee
lvl 20 chain 134 ee
lvl 40 chain 155 ee
I need to get a lvl 30 and 55 still but I am on my way

So now I will be tanking orrr stat'ing on the melee's based on what the team needs.