check out my lvl 34 fighter im making iso help on him

Get ee on a weapon as close to your level as possible, the more the better

Get ee on a heavy armour close to your level.

get stats on your charm. (dex is cheaper than str)

all the rest of your points into str.

i was under the impression i needed my points into dex?

str is more beneficial for damage than dex. You generally want to hit ~100dex at level 55 (with gear), and thne have as much str as possible. but i've been doing fine with just 80dex the last few climbs.

i thought str/vit was the best and never put any into dex i have like 44 dex or something

In my opinion:

never put any into vit on softcore
never put any into int
get dex to 80-100 with gear at level 55
as much as you can into str

thanks guys