Quote (someone3 @ 1 Nov 2009 17:40)
No, just pm someone when you friend request them. If you don't even take the time to do that, you probably shouldn't have friend requested the person to begin with.
It's easy enough to do it manually.
I disagree, I've pm:ed people/friends and people/friends have pm:ed me and asked me if its okay that they add me. Still you can forget it sometimes, and the friend invitation is pending...
And still many friend adds that I've got I rarely got a pm about it, its not that random persons add me, its people I've talked with a lot or friends.