Quote (unhatchedxegg @ Sat, 14 Mar 2009, 03:20)
knowing right from wrong takes time and experience to be able to apply to all situations in life. it's not the parents fault for anything
when i said calculating risks i was referring to knowing how drugs have the potential to damage your body, your mind, and your life, and deciding weather or not those risks are ok to take. kids usually value fun and follow their curiosity first. and sometimes kids might not be educated about them at all, so they won't even try calculating anything
it's not a parenting issue because every kid was like that at one point or another
you're using everything i'm saying in a different context. i was just saying that although you can kill someone several ways, each way is just as bad. as is getting influenced to take drugs. there are several ways to get influenced, like directly from a friend, or just by reading about it. it's not how you did it that really matters, just the fact that you did it~
Well first, Yes it would be the parents fault because they can't control there child. Although yes we learn right from wrong from learning from our mistakes, the job of a parent is to teach their child about their own mistakes so the child does not have to live threw them. IE, a parent that grew up in the 60s that was around drug abuse, sexual promiscuity, and irrational violence should teach there child that nothing is won threw all those things and that they should stray away from them because they can damage there overall well being.
And its not the job of the people that go to this site to be role models for children. If we want to tell stories about how we got really drunk and smoked a fat blunt let it be. People don't go to this site to think, "Hmm, I bet theres little kids that go to this site that look up to me as a law abiding citizen and regal forum member." They go to this site to talk to friends and have fun. You slap people on the wrist for talking about it here, they will just go somewhere else and talk about it. Its like the whole Youtube bullshit where they started censoring people, the people just posted there vids somewhere else. You're not going to stop it, your just going to stall the inevitable.
And also, if a kid can go to a website that is involved in playing they game that said website is affiliated with. Bid, trade, buy, and sell items/currency affiliated with that game that they play by posting on said website. I'm pretty sure they can understand what drugs can do to you. Don't underestimate the youth, they are smarter then you think and they will be our future.