Just started playing and want to no what to put my skill points in so i don't have to start over.

im looking at being a dual weild.

also, can u be rushed in this? or do i have to manualy go through all the quests and shit.

You could try a build similar to this one.
http://hellgateaus.net/planner/#Blademaster,55,50,0,v1.0000110000006955151239000170000000

As for the stats just use as much as your items require and put the remaining stats in your stamina.
There easiest way to get through the game quickly is to make a party for each main quest.