How to I get them after someone sent them to me?

press "z", open the mail. Remove the item which will appear as an attachment.

P.S. This is the trade forum.

yeah only reason I posted here was because I just did a trade and messed up the name so didnt get the stuff and I couldnt figure out why before that crossed my mind. I also tried deleting but couldnt figure out how.

I still need all stuff from prev post

Smoke less bud, and maybe you'll be competent enough to solve problems like this on your own.