so ive read about 10 or so how to sync wii mote sites, and they all work for one of my controllers. but for my other controller it cannot sync. the blue lights blink just like its supposed to when i press the sync button on the console and the controller, but it doesnt sync. any suggestions or help is greatly appreciated

I think you have to have a game in that is two players. It should sync up either way though.

Try pressing both sync buttons at the same time and holding them down for a couple of seconds