She likes foreigners.... many people in China do, I even get skype calls from girls in china asking them to marry randomly its so weird LOL. If i go visit my aunt in china, the girls that are poor there would do anything and kiss your ass to get out of there... its kinda sad that there are ppl like that but they dont have many choices, they are pretty simple minded. There really isn't much you can do, just try to ignore her as much as you can, isnt there some way you can block her emails from coming through? Another thing you can try is to be a dick and say you are going and make her wait in a weird spot for you..... then see if she realizes it when you dont show up.