Quote (djester @ Jan 9 2012 12:11am)
I had the same problem where I could only join games but not host them.
I did 3 things at once that solved the problem, don't know if any one will do the trick or if you need them all or whatever will even work for you.
But here is what I did:
(1) Disable or Uninstall private networking / tunneling programs (Hamachi, Comodo, etc. etc...). If you don't know what these are you probably don't have it.
(2) Tinker with my firewall Program Control and explicitly Allow all communications from all the *.EXE files in the Dungeon Defenders folder. I have Norton which blocks a lot of stuff by default. There is more than one executable in there.
(3) Steam -> Library -> Dungeon Defenders -> Right Click -> Properties -> General tab -> Set Launch Options... -> write "-tcp" into the line, without the quotations of course -> click OK
The first and third I got from looking around the web, the second one I just know because I have to mess around with it quite often. Norton is pretty good at keeping my computer safe but it also blocks a lot of good/legit stuff.
last one worke,d thanks