yeah i just installed the game where should i start??
i keep getting kicked LOL, can anyone suggest where to start?

Best bet is to sell the game then go looking for your local smack dealer

Suggest you start with either Apprentice or Squire and learn the basic of the game before you party up with other people. Since 95% of the games online are usually on Hard on Insane mode, people wont appreciate you joining with a low lvl character without any gear

so play by myself?
im starting with huntress

Huntress isn't a great first choice since they require good equip to do decen dmg and its hard to for them to farm lvls without any support def from other characters.