this all reminds me of a conversation i had with Insanebobb a while back
i mentioned how i had noted that d2jsp players always do well in other games and i often find them high up the rankings wherever they turn their hand
his reply: even the spammiest flaming jsp member is a gamer. the real deal. most people are sheep to be fleeced or farmed (that bit might just of been my thoughts at the time)
what you have at the moment is a new system and people are trying to exploit it to their benefit, that there are wiser ways to do so may eventualy become apparent
i have had only two excursions into multi:
the first i pretty much lvled up a group who had little or no chance of gaining exp or drops alone, i was exp raped
however... the wiser members of my various teams soon realised the possible benefit having someone like myself about conferred upon their own efforts. not hard to make your char at least usable and they did so admirably. within a few hours we had a decent team which played well with each other, ok i was still missing on what i would do solo but not by a huge margin and it was good fun
then i played alongside Jay a little today, one of my previous team was there and was welcome. had you given us all a few more hours we would of been mfing and making a fortune between us... because we could and are able to figure that out.
i admit i have been fortunate in that the weaker team members were good players just new to the game rather than excitable randoms and slashing alongside Jay is always going to be a good thing, my point merely is it is up to you how you go about making use of multi. a better method of play is better for all players, when this is the case then wiser folk just naturaly join in from their own violition not due to some tirade.
would like to see njag allow me to zap not heal tho... that would soon tidy things up
a few choice words at the right time hurt more than any ee charm though

one last point, i will engage when i decide to put the tea down not when you say "go" */kicks and engages with 4*