Quote (GunslingerOfOld @ Dec 20 2009 02:12pm)
to end the endless speculation over her possible infidelity. i have been with misty since high school and anyone who has ever had a relationship longer than a few months to a year knows long term relationships are trying to say the least. But it is my firm belief that things are better worked out than starting anew with someone else. through deaths in the families, trying jobless times. and those horrible misunderstandings we all cant slow down to work out. i fyou have the heart for it. working things out are way better and ur relationship is sooo much rewarding for it. the truth is after such a long time things dull and wear out. so we took a break and unfortunately she got knocked up on this break. we got back together before she found out she is break i knew about he other guy has i went on dates with other women. the biological issue is not an issue. tbh i believe not many on this site could not raise themselves much less a child. and further more many wouldn't even think about taking care of another mans baby. that's ur choice yes but it is a honorable albeit hard decision to make and to carry forth in life providing and loving a child that isn't truly urs. however in that midst if you are there everyday u are teaching him / her and helping them grow you are truly a daddy. so before you begin to slam me ask ur selves, would you eb that percent of the the world to raise someone else s kid out of love and affection, or are you going the be a part of that larger percent and leave someone else to raise urs.
AND ON A HAPPIER NOTE.. sitting i the hospital i asked misty so should we stat int or str because we want him to be strong but he should be very smart too. i playing caster would totally approve of an all int build. but misty in her wisdom seen through to the future and said both, hybrid is best. i damn near fell out the chair laughing in the recovery room was one of the funniest irl/jsp related jokes Ive ever heard.
congrats on the new addition!
and good luck in the future. It really is great to work things out, too many people easily give up on relationships. I know it depends on the both people's involvement and varying circumstances, but big props to you two proud parents!
This post was edited by Brainwashed on Dec 21 2009 07:16am