My thoughts exactly, wouldn't have to be secretive about surfing the web on work computer while there. LOL

how do I get my tablet : ipad (iox) to take flash player?>

Iphones/Ipads do not support flash and to my knowledge never did, so this will be tricky to get.
There might be some ways to get it or a replacement nevertheless, but i fear it involves stuff like rooting your phone
(which is very risky and makes you loose the warranty etc. so i wouldnt advise that at all)

Maybe there are some apple users out here who have made experience with it and now details.
Its not even supported on the new android versions any more, but its relatively easy to get one of the older flash versions there.
(if an android user needs help, just lmk)

U can buy the flash player out the apple store for like 2-3 bucks