How do you know when you are in love?

How do you find true love?

There is no such thing.

Even after all these years of loving relationships as well as of unhealthy relationships, I am of the mind to think that "true love" is not attainable. It's like a feel good and sometimes torturous myth.
And, as for "love", that is possible. And, yet, it is different for each person. What you may love or experience love as may not be what another experiences in their experience of love.
Considering how many people there are in this world, there really are enough people to be able to find at the very least one person to love and to be loved by.

Man, there are so many stories on love. You cannot but wonder if love has like a zillion dimensions.

When you want to get married and grow old together.
How do you find it? I found my girl in a pub if that helps...

Couldnt be more wrong.

This post was edited by MoreTimeToKill on Feb 20 2026 02:51am

Usually after first 1-1.5 years of a relationship, after your brain chemistry goes back to normal and you start thinking critically again. Theres no "one true love", theres countless possibilities and relationship always needs effort from both sides eventually. Just find a sane person you vibe with and that makes your peepee go up.

I found someone I just need to connect with her, thats been tough because I didnt know what to say, but my friend said just ask her about herself

Yea there is 'one true love' for some people. Look in the animal kingdom too.
Some humans are like wolves and partner up for life.
Maybe that's just not in your nature...

If you are in love and want to check if it is true love

From the old "true love conquers all"

I wouldnt put that much pressure on the connection you two share.

Pub helps, she enjoys a drink?