why its called Cheating when you "date" or do things with another human? Like, how does it change your life if i try some another lady? it does not change the fact who i love to.
imo you should actually be happy because i may learn some new tricks or something - or atleast get new friends for me or probably for us.
Just clearification, it would be totally different story if girl started cheating (with guy, i see no problem if she wanna try with other girl, doesnt bother me even if i was watching it.) but well most people already knew that.
It's a trust thing
IMO
Would be similar feelings if you have shared finaces with someone, and make secret purchases for yourself that you think would improve yourself therefor your relationship.
Even if you may be right, you broke trust.
Communicate like a mature adult, Be open that you are not expecting exslusivity in a relationship and are activley dating. It's common.
But if even unspoken the expectation is you are together, Looking for another just sews the seeds of distrust in the other and is a slippery slope that most cant climb back from.
Don't be a pussy and lead people on - Tell them you aredating to see how things are. If that offends them, then great - you have set clear expectations from the start.
Don't be a btich and make exsuses for "Cheating" Wether you think you are or what you are doing is considered cheating or not - It's subjective - But the lack of communication and hoping soeone else understands your take with no exception is dumb.
Just clearification, it would be totally different story if girl started cheating (with guy, i see no problem if she wanna try with other girl, doesnt bother me even if i was watching it.) but well most people already knew that.
Right there you set your boundaries. Say that when dating a girl, and see how they react. If they think it's cheating or gross - you have an answer. If they agree and say hey that sounds fun maybe ill try a girl out and bring her home for us - you have another answer.
Don't assume, talk to the other person without being a silly billy.
Take the answer you get on the chin.