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Jul 17 2025 04:07pm
this some brother bs i guess XD


So a few months ago my older brother wanted to take my little brother out to a sporting event for his birthday ... I didnt care for the sport event at all and def woulda preferred celebrating it a different way but I felt like I kind of had to go because if I said no i would've been missing out on something for my little bros birthday.

Turns out I end up getting covid.

I get better and what not then a month or so later my older brother gots on a trip and then comes back with a weird sickness that I end up getting and was pretty sick for that too which sucked obviously.


Then after this I express some which I think was justified frustration just in general for him getting me involved with in events that ended up getting me pretty sick.
Everyone around me is saying I have no justification to express any kind of frust


My question is do I have any justification to express even the slightest bit of frustration even at the situation of him being involved as to why I got pretty sick two times in such a relatively short period of time?
And I wasnt mad or wanting him to say sorry or any stupid stuff like that ... just merely pointing it out was enough to get everyone mad at me lol


Thanks for the feedback in advance!
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Jul 17 2025 04:09pm
First to not help
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Jul 17 2025 04:10pm
Unhelpful as always
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Jul 17 2025 04:13pm
your brother's to blame. if you're sick and infectious then stay home! he went out, got sick and still came around you. which led you getting sick twice. how are you supposed to be at fault? he's the problem x3!
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Jul 17 2025 04:14pm
That’s a lot to a read I need the tl;dr version


My advice is smoke some herbz :D ;) XD
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Jul 17 2025 04:22pm
You are mad at your brother for contracting an illness from someone else and then you happen to get it? With the covid thing, you are mad that you went to the event and not that someone else was at the same event positive with covid?
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Jul 17 2025 04:28pm
siblings bring stuff. in time you will get over it
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Jul 17 2025 04:31pm
your brother's to blame. if you're sick and infectious then stay home! he went out, got sick and still came around you. which led you getting sick twice. how are you supposed to be at fault? he's the problem x3!


Ok I should've said we a current room mates. So I was just around him while home sick.
The other time was his idea to go to a big sporting event which I ended up getting sick from that I wasnt too keen on going to in the first place but felt kind of obligated to go to


You are mad at your brother for contracting an illness from someone else and then you happen to get it? With the covid thing, you are mad that you went to the event and not that someone else was at the same event positive with covid?


like I said in OP, I wasn't mad at him just expressed slight frustration towards him for me being pretty sick two times, when I would never of been sick in the first place if I did it my way.

You are mad at your brother for contracting an illness from someone else and then you happen to get it? With the covid thing, you are mad that you went to the event and not that someone else was at the same event positive with covid?


tl;dr is this XD being around my older brother has got me sick two times ... am i justified for feeling any frustration for this?
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Jul 17 2025 04:32pm
Do you all live together?
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Jul 17 2025 04:32pm
Yeah nah that's just rng, like diablo 2, sometimes i get two items drop at the same time, from same monster, happens very rarely but it does happen.

But yes. Back when covid was a thing, i was very prickly about using a mask, always used it, with changeable filters, and bought a little spray flask with 95% alcohol content desinfectant spray. I still use that flask today. Should be using the mask too, at least on bus (Bussy xD) and in crowds. because there are a LOT of nasty people out there, with zero sense of hygiene. They'll sneeze right in your direction, or maybe just right out in the air where everyone passes through. Those bacteria n virus stay in the air a good few minutes after that, especially if the air is not circulated.

So i got stupid n careless, just like hardcore in diablo 2, n went to aqua exercise during winter holidays, when it's full of people. N got hit. Got sick for 3 weeks, but luckily no big deal. I think i took the vaccine before that. So it was like this season in d2, nm ancients, one of them had fire enchatned n i didn't spot it, from 1200 to 100 hit points in an instant. Big jolt.

And never mind touching public things, i.e. shopping cart handles, bus seat belts, handling money or similar things when shopping, door handles in shops... Cart handles i spray properly with desinfectant, or use the outside of the nylon shopping net i always carry to wrap round the handle.

When i was buying ticket for train ride some weeks ago, that touch screen, i started scrubbin it with desinfectant spray n paper, that dang paper even had blood on it, i did the process properly twice, n then sprayed it again before using it. Imagine how many NASTY people touch that screen with all kinds of NASTY stuff....

And i've written many times on this forum, i go to aqua exercise, i state and stake my life on that 95% of all people going in there, do not wash or shower how they're really supposed to. I know there's chlorine in the water, but that does not kill all bac n virus, it just stems the growth. It's so friggin nasty. I even went to the news paper about it a year ago, it has not improved anything. Still the same.

It's no wonder that dang virus spread so fast across the world. I kid you not, 95% of all people have just about zero sense of hygiene. When SUCH SMALL MEASURES could be taken by everyone to prevent spreading.

I wrote at the beginning of the pandemic (that's one of Accept's best tracks btw), that if the governments really cared about people, they would make some factories mass produce masks with changeable filters, and give spray flasks with desinfectant and free refill bottles at designated points or something like that. That dang vaccine thing .... feels like a big scam.

It's sickening even just to think about it.
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