Gotta put you first sometimes
New Updates couple months later

So I don’t see myself being a hero to leave my life behind and dealing with the female dramas with not my kids and Exes I stopped giving away money help as a lover or friend, even though still bought things and some small amount of money to help, but was never enough unless it’s every week and we don’t see each other since December!!!
I told her if she sees someone else I’ll also see someone else, but she would lied to me saying her Male friends are just Friends that also helped with couple hundred dollars but she went to visit Him or others and I’m so far away 5 hours+ caught her in a Lie she’s home sick but found out she went to that Mans home just for food and some money because he’s her friend that just helping her in the struggles. Said she lied to me because we are not in relationship anymore and don’t want me to control her or feel upset about her personal life n male friends she can see.
I will just act like a friend to her from now on, No more money and No more Time and efforts spent on her, don’t care who she’s with and I won’t tell her who I’m going to find.
This post was edited by JayBomber on Mar 28 2026 02:38am