Anything we want to do, or go out.
I don't think I'd ever give up that freedom, she also agrees with this. This year is our 10th year together.
Raising a kid in today's general temp is not something I would want.

I think a lot of people these days are extra hesitant to have children, but will regret it later on in life.

Initially wanted 4

Got 1

Wanted 0

Now at 2

Thinking of 3 but then I'd have to get a minivan

That’s a freedom we don’t want to give up, to do what we want to, when we want to. I don’t think I’d be happier worrying about someone else and denying myself.

OP on another vacation.

it says hes in this topic

It was only like a 15min-er.

Warning shot?

I was working in retail during the entire pandemic. In two different states. The amount of people I saw with multiple -1 children [going from 2+ to 3+ over time] was the biggest problem I was having. Although having an internal crisis over other peoples kids isnt productive, im not sorry for finally venting over it four years later.

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