Quote (Nevada @ Jul 14 2017 11:05pm)
1. HE’S A LONER
While some potential creepsters travel in packs, the most serious creeps are loners.
Perhaps it’s because they creep out everyone, guys included, so they have no friends, or maybe they prefer to do their creeping work alone, so they don’t invite friends along.
Either way, if you notice a lone guy scoping your girls’ night out, he might well be a stalker-in-sheep’s clothing.
His lone wolf status isn’t a symbol of his fiery independence, it’s just how to spot a creep… at least, THIS creep.
2. YOU SEE HIM EVERYWHERE AKA EVERY THREAD ON D2JSP.ORG
If you notice the same guy everywhere you go – the library, your job, your fave coffee shop – it might be coincidence, or he might be quietly stalking you.
Definitely creepy!
3. WATCH HOW HE TREATS OTHER WOMEN
Two can play at the “I’m watching you” game!
If someone’s making you uncomfortable, watch how other people react to him, and how he treats other people, especially women.
If they’re obviously uncomfortable, then he’s probably a creep.
4. WATCH HOW OFTEN HE COMES AT THE DEFENSE OF WOMEN (WHITE KNIGHT)
If you ever see a guy who's always coming at the defense of women or claiming to be watching you or your actions 24-7.
Be careful there's a big chance that guy is a creep.
Signs that "nice guy" is actually a total creeper
1. He has to tell you he's a nice guy
Good guys don't walk around telling you how good they are and just expect you to take them at their word; they show you.
2. He threatens to "crush the life" out of other people
Killing people, or even just threatening to, isn't cute and it definitely isn't nice. Nor is being jealous of your relationships with other men.
3. He won't accept no as an answer
Whenever I hear "Why does she keep turning me down?" I always want to say "Why do you keep asking?" Accept her decision and I promise she'll let you know if she changes her mind.
4. He makes everything you do about him
Don't want to go on a date? It's because you hate him, not because you're busy. Don't smile when he holds open a door for you? It's because you hate him, not because you're tired after a long day. Don't feel like chatting when some random approaches you in a dark grocery store parking lot for a "pleasant" evening chat? Obviously you're a man-hating feminist ball-crusher taking advantage of his kindness. Obviously.
5. He turns on a dime
If you have to tell women you're really a nice guy, you're probably not that nice
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A friend was recently asked for her number by a guy at the gym. While he seemed really sweet when he was chatting her up, when she said, "No, thanks", the dude yelled, "Well you're a fat whore anyhow" before stalking off. There's nothing nice about calling someone a bitch, insulting her appearance or threatening her after she turns you down. That's just being two-faced.
6. He assumes you need or want his help
Help is nice, don't get me wrong. But a guy should ask first if you'd like assistance, not assume you need to be rescued.
7. He thinks he knows what you want better than you know what you want
"You don't really want to order the salad do you?" "You want long hair, it's much prettier than short hair." Or, of course, "You only think you love him. You really love me."
8. He tires to make you feel guilty
His problems with women? Not your fault.
9. He makes fun of other women
A true nice guy will be nice to all women, regardless of whether or not he wants to sleep with them. If he's only nice to girls he wants to bang, then he's just an opportunist in nice guys' clothing.
10. He creates a threat so he can save you from it
True story: I once had a date tell me, "I could totally rape you right now and there isn't anything you could do about it... good thing I'm a nice guy." Um, nope, now you're officially a creeper. Also, let me out of the car now.
11. He's offended when you're cautious of him
Women aren't "afraid of the world" nor do we "fear the good guys." We're afraid of men in general — because we have to be. We turn a guy down and risk getting shot, stabbed, burned by acid, punched, mass murdered, raped or "just" publicly humiliated. Of course it isn't all men or even most men but a true nice guy will understand why you might be wary at first.
good meme