Banana gang was doing this thing where they'd meet up and...
i've said too much.

dont tease me


ill cash it all in and request the time off

We miss each other already,

I feel like going back for something casual and keeping it friendly not promising each other anything long term.

There’s still Risks though of going back n dragging it any longer.

We both felt there’s something Unfinished and wanted little more love and financial help. But we Both know that long term we cannot commit to each other due to Distances and Exes and Previous Marriages.

This post was edited by JayBomber on Feb 15 2026 04:27am

I've done the math, and this is what I've concluded.

Jaybomber = J-A-Y-B-O-M-B-E-R = Just a yielded bond, once meaningful but emptied remains

J - Just
A- A
Y - Yielded
B - Bond,
O - Once
M - Meaningful
B- But
E- Emptied
R - Remains

She’s struggling right now with Bills phones, groceries, so on

If I meet her again for love I would have to help her pay these Bills, but to what End? If I don’t pay and just walk away, she felt I abandoned her at a Bad Moment. I just don’t want to continue Dating someone that needs money every month just to meet me two weekends per month.

This post was edited by JayBomber on Feb 15 2026 11:37am

She's a gold digger and you're wasting your time and money on her. Find someone more local IMO. I've dealt with her kind, she's a leech and she'll only be satisfied when your bank account is zero (or negative).

The older you get the less likely to find a non parent you are

That long distance though is hard and not for everyone. Just end it already. Why drag it out?

Yeah, most females in the 30s usually are parents already.

The long distance makes both of our schedules tough and availability becomes limited I offered 2-3 days visit while she can only do 1 Day due to her responsibilities so I said No thanks….

I’m currently Ending it by cutting off my financial support that I gave out and felt it’s draining me, dragging it out because part of me still wants to enjoy time together when it’s possible, she looks very good still. But she talks about so many problems going forward and not just making things easy to just enjoy time together, on top of it it’s Hundreds and hundreds dollars of Bills she need help with paying first. I still have to pay off my bills first.

I’m contemplating thinking about helping her ONE LAST time and I don’t even want anything in Return because of Emotions and dramas that comes with n just Quietly walks away n move on.

This post was edited by JayBomber on Feb 15 2026 02:07pm

Gotta put you first sometimes