Agreed, I dated a girl with kids a few times and was kinda expected to fill some sort of father roll. Wich isn't really their fault or anything but its a responsibility that not everyone wants
My sister in law has 4 kids with 2 different dads. She just married this retired Air Force dude who has also 4 kids of his own with his exwife. She wanted that nest egg of a retirement he gets and dude fell for her bullshit.