I'm starting to fall in love with the Spear even though I don't really have a good one to use.
And I'll be aiming for Rank 5 Longsword soon. I started leveling up various heavy weapons.
I felt content being #1 on Hardcore for Club and Heal. I want to explore other things now...
Even though I still want to one day reach Rank 30 Club and Rank 30 Heal. Too many things to do.
Focus on playing just a little each day, or even just once a week.

Don't burn yourself out.
What I usually do is first look at what the event is, and go from there. For example, last week we had high glyphing speed boost so I didn't do any catacombs at all. I just merged a lot of glyphs I had lying around. Once that was done, I logged off for the rest of that week.
Today, the event is really nice for transmuting and climbing, so I'm killing monsters. I usually only play 1-2 hours each morning while drinking my morning coffee. If I play at all. Lmk if you wanna climb duo.