Dating Single Mothers Vs My Career - Topic

Bruv

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#41

Feb 5 2026 11:33am

Lady collecting child support from EX
Getting bills paid by you

Dump that shit

😎

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#42

Feb 5 2026 11:11pm

Quote (Bruv @ Feb 5 2026 12:33pm)

Lady collecting child support from EX
Getting bills paid by you

Dump that shit

😎

So far it seems like Her EX doesn’t pay child supports and not care at all. He’s still around to visit the kids or even stayed there while She had to do work outside since she got no other options, Where am I in all of this? I don’t want to be in the middle of this mess…

She did said things like if I love her I should be loving what she comes with n help pay their expenses.
I gotta Get away from this and NOT look back! Too much and too Far away! Start Focusing on myself and wish Her Best of Luck!

This post was edited by JayBomber on Feb 5 2026 11:12pm

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#43

Feb 5 2026 11:17pm

Quote (JayBomber @ Feb 5 2026 10:11pm)

i will let you love me if you pay my bills.

you will get nothing in return though.

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#44

Feb 6 2026 01:41pm

Quote (klink @ Feb 6 2026 12:17am)

i will let you love me if you pay my bills.

you will get nothing in return though.

Lol I know how that feels!

So far I don’t get anymore responses from Her after I refused to pay for some big expenses as I’m tired of the long distance relationship and not officially having a relationship n no future since we live far apart

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#45

Feb 6 2026 02:11pm

Sounds like you've already made your mind up. Don't drag it out, it will make it worse.

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#46

Feb 7 2026 09:38pm

Quote (SweetDisposition @ Feb 6 2026 03:11pm)

Sounds like you've already made your mind up. Don't drag it out, it will make it worse.

Yeah the Better and Best way is We Both Move on to our separate lives!! It’s too far and too expensive to keep up! I don’t make that much every month.

But We Really Miss Each Other Badly! But Getting together again might repeat n drag it longer

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#47

Feb 9 2026 01:26pm

I don’t think I’ll Ever Date Single mother’s again, comes with too much responsibilities and the Ex husbands.

I also Don’t want to Marry again unless Dating someone for minimum 2 years. Must Sign Pre-Nup and set up Trusts so I don’t own anything incase of Divorce again losing Half of everything I worked for