Quote (Beowulf @ Sep 24 2017 09:23am)
I'm not much for the approach hostile confrontation type stuff
I try to stay positive and always accept a relationship gone bad at any stage as incompatible and then spend some time by myself figuring out why, what they did that I didn't like/don't want and what I did that could have been done differently or seen differently by the other
I like to look at my life as a story where all of the chapters matter. So I drop the bad and hold on tight to the good and try to always learn and grow which will hopefully land me where I was always meant to land
My main advice would be don't be bitter about what happened just look forward to what might happen and within that you're actually allowing it to happen
i'm not bitter, just realistic
i wasn't hostile, tried to be understanding, and i knew approaching him at work was weird, but i didn't really care
i don't have time to pussyfoot around with someone who is going to be fucking around with other people same day as they're out with me
it's shady & i don't care for it. maybe we'll be friends, who knows, but right now i'm just going to avoid the whole thing and look at it objectively at a later date.