at what age did you feel like a capable adult?
I know for my partner and I, we both agree around ~28
I don't think that college aged kids are anywhere near mature enough to be in a relationship with people old enough that they ought to be established in their careers and finances
bro im 37 and i still dont feel like a capable adult,
im getting by okay but i always feel theres room for improvement
one is always maturing
but to answer your question id say 11 years ago is when i really sobered up because i had my son and real life hit me in the face real quick and i had to wake up
so i guess 25 or 26 is when i would say i became a ''capable adult'' and thats because it was forced on me
a person could be a capable adult at 18... it just depends on how your upbringing was, honestly the harder a person has it kinda dictates how early they become a ''capable adult'' atleast in my opinion