Been 10 years together.
We talk about it then don't, would like her to finish her bachelors before we do.
Talked about just going to the courthouse and signing papers, then doing something later.
I dunno, it's not a high priority ever.
There are so many ways to show love and/or one's commitment. Even if marriage is the end goal, commitment ceremonies and things like that do rekindle the journey. Mind you, every pair of hearts may be unique. Just do your own thang.