You're asserting interest/romanticism in another human besides the one that you morally pledged to.
Unless that isn't a part of the deal and it was laid out before that an open relationship is expected.
It's real simple, you end the relationship before take action on exploring another avenue.
You should not hold a person there as a cushion to fall onto if things do not work for you while exploring. No one should be tortured like that, it's a terrible thing to do, and you're shitter for it if you have or will do it.
Attraction is another thing in itself, I actually had a relationship end because this was an argument.
No matter what; you will see many people who you are physically attracted to or even emotionally (emotionally is the more dangerous one) but to know that you will have to get to know that person on that level and to do that you're on the line of cheating anyway in my book.
To claim your partner is the only person you are attracted to is a lie, it's inscribed in our DNA to notice it, the moral compass/loyalty to your partner is the dictator of whether you act on it or not.
Like, how does it change your life if i try some another lady?
You expect the other to sit around and take that while you explore? How will their life change knowing you have higher interest in another lady than the one you deemed worthy to be your ride or die?
You should actually be happy because i may learn some new tricks or something.
Assuming this is sexual the way you put it, exploring things with your partner and communication is key to keeping things fresh and learning new things you both enjoy. Why would you need to date other while you're dedicated to learn what they might like? Sounds like cope.
Just clearification, it would be totally different story if girl started cheating
Oh, lmao okay this was a whole waste of time. Rules for thee but not for me. I put effort into this bait unfortunately.
I should have read this first then immediately disengaged.
This post was edited by lolkggz on Oct 29 2025 09:42am