I just don't get it. Like, don't they want to have their own family with the girl with just them and their own kids? Why raise another mans kids and have a family like that? Is it the ultimate simp move?

If girls without children were in short supply then I would understand. Here in the Philippines though, they're not in short supply. There's tons of good girls in their 20s and even 30s without children. I've never once entertained the idea of settling down with a girl with children. Just seems insane. I like kids and want my own kids one day of course. Yet I often times see young white guys coming here and settling down with girls with children. It's just like WHY? White guys here are big catches and girls throw themselves at them. They have plenty of options. They could easily find a girl without children, so why even entertain a girl for a second if you know she has kids? Is that not a big deal breaker? I know people say things like, oh they fell in love and didn't care anymore after they fell in love, but like why allow yourself to fall in love with a woman with children in the first place? Why not just say sorry not for me and swipe next?

There's some things in life that I'll never understand, and this is one of them.

This post was edited by HeyMan3 on Nov 27 2025 09:48pm

Shit happens

That's not really an answer though.

yep
try make a family with a person
that already made a family with someone else then found them to be replaceable
nah

duh

desperate times calls for desperate measures

Oh yeah, I get that they are desperate, but you can be desperate and still have standards.

Like I said, desperate white guys coming to the Philippines can EASILY find a girl without children, yet a lot of them go for women with children, even when the men don't have children themselves. It's baffling.

I ain't reading all of that, but answer is idk

you must be under 30 when think like that

Lol, no, I'm 37. You must not realize that men can get younger girls without children. Sucks for you.