In all seriousness it's ultimately up to yourself. Obviously outside sources and other people can effect your future, but the majority of the time you have the power to make the changes that are right for you. It's not narcistic to think you have more power over your own life than others do.
Before the answer was black and white, so I wanted to see if there was grey balance. Majority and always have different meanings and should be chosen appropriately.
But realistically you're saying someone can have control of another's person sometimes. Although i thought was someone is always in control?
Unless you're born into slave trade? Or what? Like we don't just like in a box. Variables are abounding.