Yeah currently seen some tricks with flash on your camera.
like the paper / mirror ? any other little tricks like this ?

What kind of flash do you have ?

mine's only a digital camera. 9.0 mp i just got for xmas.

Compact camera or a DSLR?

I´m guessing its a digicam if the first thing he points out is the megapixel amount

The only real "trick" I guess for a point and shoot is to set it to manual, drop the exposure (shutter) down a couple stops (faster) and use flash for fill light. This works well for back lit subjects and in times where its quite bright. This will darken off the back ground.

Without the maneuverability of something like a speedlite there isn't much you can do :/