yeah I know what you mean. It's sad that some people tend to get too serious and grumpy all the time, like my dad
I can never get along with those kind of people because I usually just like to bug them or tease them and they would get even grumpier and start hating me - hahaha
I do like to make people laugh as well because if they laugh I would feel happy too especially if that person was having a bad day or was sad.
I am sure you can fool around and not being serious all the time IF everyone on this planet are like that, lmao, it would be quite hilarious though. Iif all those boring politicians and military dudes start to goof off and joking around instead of waging wars and all that crap I believe our planet would have been a much better place to live on

Haha. Sometimes my dad is grumpy, but not all the time.

Interesting theori.
If people could understand eachother there would be no war. When people is ethnocentric, that is the problem.

lol I guess all dads are grumpy bastards

Well I guess misunderstanding, narrow mindedness and fear for the unknown and new are usually the reasons behind conflicts, divorces and all that kind of crap - lol

Haha. They shall be like that !

Yeah, I hate it. Why could people just be freinds.

yeah its kinda weird. maybe its because of all the responsibilities they feel and have to take care of the kids and be a good provider. Well I'd really hate to become like that - lol course I just love to fool around and goof off

Well we are all different and we are not perfect. I just wish people would be more open minded and less judgmental. That's why I feel sorry for those kids who have/had a messed up childhood because they tend to fail socially as well with few or no friends and end up marrying some jerk who would treat them like shit and all the people around them would judge them for either being stupid or trashy...

Haha. Yuo could be a good farther if you do like that. Not! You have to be responsible like you said.

I am afraid that it never will go away.

well I dont really understood what you said in your post - lol but I believe being responsible doesn't mean you have to be freaking serious and grumpy all the freaking time. That's not being responsible that's being an asshole. I know my dad never really wanted a child because he hated them and that's why my mom got an abortion otherwise I would have a little sister which would probably my life whole a lot better, you know just have someone to talk to and confide to. lol I could probably write an essay or something about my family, some of you may think I am weird or crazy talking crap about my own parents online but you don't know what some parents are capable to do to their children and how much harm they have inflicted them and keep doing that even when they've got older.

I know some parents is bad parents. I was in school with a boy who got removed from his parents and was replaced to an other family.

I am sad to hear your story, but I think you a strong enough to "survive".

I do not think you are crazy, at least not here.

oh pfft lol I'm not telling my story to make you feeling sorry for me because there are a lot people out there who are having or had it worse especially the girls. I mean when guys get hurt they would just keep everything for themselves and maybe turn into violent assholes who beat their wives when they get older or join criminal gangs to feel accepted and respected. lol I am not saying that I am like that because I guess I am a lil bit on the feminine since I like to talk about feelings and stuff, not the gay kind of feminine though - lmao The girls on the other hand, well those I've got to known or heard of end up hooking up with some jerk who treat them like shit and/or use them or being an attention "whore" by dressing and acting like a skank just to get some attention they didn't get from their own parents. Those are the people I feel sorry for because nobody likes them, not even themselves. They are being judged like skanks or whores and I am sure they see themselves as those too and they often lack self esteem and dont think they deserve better guys than the assholes they are with. That's just really really sad. We guys can usually defend ourselves but those girls usually can't...

This post was edited by Futurama on Dec 6 2008 07:35am

I know these types, and it is really sad!.
I know some of them in my town. The tough guys and the "slutty" girls who try to feel accepted. (I do not hope anyone are judging me now by saying that)

And now we are pretending to be better than other by talking all of this. xD

This post was edited by Qhotex on Dec 6 2008 08:11am