Xan I have only one son

so yeah this is the same boy

and I'm glad that you like pp
I think I notice one thing here (or is it only me oO fuck, dunno lol)
im editing some shots in lr3 so im trying get as much from colours i can since all shots on portrait mode looks for me little bit flat and colour less, what's most funny this is not only one forum that I'm getting my opinions about shots, plus my wife, shes seeing all pp shots before i post them anywhere so conclusion is this : two different opinion sources saying first version (my version) is much better then version edited after opinion from here

can you call post processing like a style ? everyone has unique one right ? or in photography you have take some standards and don't try to mess to much whit shots ?