oh yeh u guys call it a pacifier?

OH ahahaha!!
I though you were meaning something about the baby being a "dummy" like one of those crash test dummies HAHAHAHA!!

yeh in australia we call them dummies etc lol; totally forgot its not the same term all around the world
do flashes really hurt babies eyes aswell?

Idk, if someone can look it up please give me a link.
I really hope not though.
But I'm not doing it anymore that's for sure.

fairly full on debate here http://photo.net/photography-lighting-equipment-techniques-forum/00FsfZ

i'm not sold either way although in future i think i'll be using available light myself just in case

I definetly won't be doing it anymore either way.
I was using my lamp light, but it makes everything look yellowish

sunlight ftw or just adjust the tones in ps later?

I have no idea how to use Photoshop, I've looked for good ways to learn and always failed.
So I guess no photoshopping for me

lightroom is an easy way to do light adjustments i just play around till i'm happy with the result

I don't have the money to spend on Lightroom, and even if I did I wouldn't know how to use it.