thankyou Chantal!

the border is pretty hard to explain but ill have a go:
-select however much you want from the edge of the picture, make sure its inversed so you have the lesser of the picture selected
-hit quick mask mode (the majority of the photo should be red)
-go into filters, then gallary then brush strokes
-choose one you like
-exit quick mask
-you should have the border area selected, so create a new layer, then fill it with a colour of your choice with the paint bucket!
-done!