Please implement updates that occur without having to refresh the page.\
Using ajax is quite simple. Just use xml to process requests without updating the page.

Here is an example of ajax in action:
http://www.w3schools.com/php/php_ajax_database.asp

This could be implemented in forum topics, in messages, post edits, etc.
For example, when someone messages you, xml processes that query so that you see the message without having to refresh the page.

I could write some code if necessary.

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http://forums.d2jsp.org/topic.php?t=55251529

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http://forums.d2jsp.org/topic.php?t=61265875

In the post above, "constant refresh" was suggested. That is not the same as what I am proposing here.

I am suggesting the use of ajax, a type of coding popularized by google. It allows for updates without refreshing.

It would not greatly affect the loading speed of the site if done properly; however, it would vastly improve the overall site experience and response times to messages, etc.

i think this is a good idea (from a feature and performance side) but its too large of a overhaul for the site
it just won't happen

This is something that Paul is probably aware of. I don't think that it will happen at this time though. A lot of these features are available in the D2Jsp IM.