2 possible ways are
1. Buy a premium . through which u have to purchase "silk" from the website it will cost at the cheapest $15 and the most at $30 the premiums do give a 1st try loggin garaunteed but they also offer extra experience and stats increase this is were the price ranges

Premium Gold Time Plus Price 290 Silk Quantity 1
Description ** For 5 hours a day, you can get additional 100% exp.
Phy. damage/Mag. damage 10% increase
Phy. damage/Mag. damage 10% absorption
Attack rating 10% increase
Parry ratio 10% increase
When enchanting items, chance of enchant success rate 5% increase
When enhancing items, chance of enhance success rate 10% increase
Str, Int stat +10
When using stall, avatar stall can be used
Premium quest can be proceeded (additional skill points can be obtained)
[Special Bonus] PREFERRED GAME ACCESS (users can log into game during server traffic hours)
** A day is considered as 24 hours from the moment the item is used.
** Unused experience bonus time is valid only for the next day.
** Bonus experience time passes by only during battle.
(Battle time refers to the 20 seconds from either attacking or being attacked by a monster.)
How to use When the coupon is clicked, usage begins.
Restriction Cannot be used simultaneously with Gold/Silver Time service.
Can be purchased only with Silk.

Premium Gold Time (4 weeks) Price 200 Silk Quantity 1
Description ** For 3 hours a day, you can get additional 100% exp.
Phy. damage/Mag. damage 5% increase
Phy. damage/Mag. damage 5% absorption
Attack rating 5% increase
Parry ratio 5% increase
When enchanting items, chance of enchant success rate 5% increase
When enhancing items, chance of enhance success rate 5% increase
Str, Int stat +3
When using stall, avatar stall can be used
Premium quest can be proceeded (additional skill points can be obtained)
[Special Bonus] PREFERRED GAME ACCESS (users can log into game during server traffic hours)
** A day is considered as 24 hours from the moment the item is used.
** Unused experience bonus time is valid only for the next day.
** Bonus experience time passes by only during battle.
(Battle time refers to the 20 seconds from either attacking or being attacked by a monster.)
How to use When the coupon is clicked, usage begins.
Restriction Cannot be used simultaneously with Gold/Silver Time service.
Can be purchased only with Silk.

Premium Silver Time (4 weeks) Price 150 Silk Quantity 1
Description ** For 3 hours a day, you can get additional 60% exp.
Phy. damage/Mag. damage 5% increase
Phy. damage/Mag. damage 5% absorption
Attack rating 5% increase
Parry ratio 5% increase
When enchanting items, chance of enchant success rate 5% increase
When enhancing items, chance of enhance success rate 5% increase
Str, Int stat +3
When using stall, avatar stall can be used
[Special Bonus]PREFERRED GAME ACCESS (users can log into game during server traffic hours)
** A day is considered as 24 hours from the moment the item is used.
** Unused experience bonus time is valid only for the next day.
** Bonus experience time passes by only during battle.
(Battle time refers to the 20 seconds from either attacking or being attacked by a monster.)
How to use When the coupon is clicked, usage begins.
Restriction Cannot be used simultaneously with Gold/Silver Time service.
Can be purchased only with Silk.
Silk is purchased at 10 cents per 1silk they only sell in bundles and the cheapest is 50silk for $5
2. You can use a " No D/C Loader" it is a program that will not let your sro client disconnect after recieving the message " Can Not Connect Due To Server Traffic " with this u can keep trying multiple times of trying to logg into sro
http://www.silkroadonline.net/itemmall/silkitem.asp?ShopType1=PREMIUM&ShopType2=PREMIUMHope this information has helped u =)