I am fairly new to SRO, i have a level 6 char on greece... and when i go to log in, it has me do the image verification, i do it, and then it says "cannot connect due to server traffic"... that kinda implys that they need more ram... or bandwidth on their server... is there anything I can do? or do i just have to wait for them to stop being nooby/people leave their server

After a couple of times you should be able to login also try logging in at night time it or so it will be much easier sometimes.