Quote (ProblemRock @ Dec 21 2022 04:04am)
Blue belt here, been training since 2015.
Started at the ripe age of 32 and suffered some massive injuries in the first years (ruptured disc, tore a rib from a thoracic vertebra and other stuff) and it taught me to know my limits. Before that it was balls to the wall or nothing.
So as said before, tap often, tap early until you start to understand how much beating your body and joints can take, it's stupid to throw away training time because of ego. No matter who taps you, remember, they did something good, it does not equate to you being bad. Not always that is, sometimes you suck and it's ok. You learn so much from being used as a mop on the mats.
What I've done is I've concentrated on one thing for a few weeks at a time. For example retaining guard, no amtter who you roll with, try to retain guard AND THEN advance with something else but prioritize getting that guard back so it's an instinct. That way you don't have to think about what to do to getto safety. Then switch to something else after said weeks.
There's so much I could rabble on but the advice you've gotten so far are solid and can add more later.
Enjoy the ride and have goals, but don't get too obsessed with them, cut some slack for yourself from time to time. I have 8 years training soon and still "just" a blue belt but I rather be a blue belt for 5 more years and have solid bjj than a brown belt who doesn't know what they're doing.
Oh, and let your body heal when needed.
Man, I stopped caring about the belts on my first class. Jiu Jitsu is so humbling, I’m just enjoying my time rolling and learning. My only goal right now is to keep improving by continuing to go.
My teacher explained to me that he looks at what my potential is for every belt. In other words, he’d rather have a top tier blue belt than a subpar purple belt.
Thanks for the advice!